I Ching Hexagram 20 Line 3

20.3 Wanting to be loved

I Ching Hexagram 20 - Line 3

One learns to seduce.

Derivated hexagram

53 - To associate

One invites their kind to overcome constraints by associating.

53 - To associate
3 - Before leaving, one asks the others to rectify their negligence.

Nuclear comments

23 - Erosion

A decline that can be contained by drawing on one's reserves.

23 - Erosion
2 - Support that cannot be used any longer.
4 - One does not want to tolerate any more.

Nuclear transformation

64 - Instability

One must show patience and act only in full knowledge of the facts. One is attentive and warns one's relatives.

64 - Instability

Multiple transformations

88687720.3 (20 > 53) - Wanting to be loved

One learns to seduce.

68687720.1.3 (20 > 37) - Refining one's calculations

One revises one's forecasts based on the results obtained.

86687720.2.3 (20 > 57) - Planning one's budget

One calculates precisely the numbers that will have to be provided.

66687720.1.2.3 (20 > 9) - Meeting

One introduces oneself to those one doesn't know.

88667720.3.4 (20 > 33) - Hiding one's charms

One deprives one's guests of an uplifting spectacle.

68667720.1.3.4 (20 > 13) - Studying the situation

One looks at what the others have done to know what is left to be done.

86667720.2.3.4 (20 > 44) - Joining as a volunteer

One collaborates with those who are in the profession.

66667720.1.2.3.4 (20 > 1) - Recognizing the benefits

One rejoices that they have not created any difficulty.

88689720.3.5 (20 > 52) - Rehearsing a sequence

One returns to their starting position to do a new exercise.

68689720.1.3.5 (20 > 22) - Negotiating with the opposition

One thinks they understand others when it would be in one's interest to ask them what they really want.

86689720.2.3.5 (20 > 18) - Agreeing on the method

One answers to one's opponents by using the same language as them.

66689720.1.2.3.5 (20 > 26) - Measuring an area

One surveys the land to find its extent.

88669720.3.4.5 (20 > 56) - Seeking an expert advice

One relies on the judgment of those who know the situation without being involved.

68669720.1.3.4.5 (20 > 30) - Reading the headlines

One focuses on the most convincing elements.

86669720.2.3.4.5 (20 > 50) - Not seeing any other plan than one's own

One avoids believing that others are only there to serve the purposes that one has outlined.

66669720.1.2.3.4.5 (20 > 14) - View

One recognizes those who deliver because they do not appear regularly.

88687920.3.6 (20 > 39) - Knowing what to do

One believes in having enough skills to deal with a situation that one considers not to be serious.

68687920.1.3.6 (20 > 63) - Hiding one's sins

One claims one's innocence so that one doesn't have to say what one really did.

86687920.2.3.6 (20 > 48) - Giving someone a piece of one's mind

One retorts to those who have not often had the opportunity to make amends.

66687920.1.2.3.6 (20 > 5) - Maintaining the connection

One calls others to be kept in sight.

88667920.3.4.6 (20 > 31) - View

One gives credibility to one's words when one holds them under the control of a competent authority.

68667920.1.3.4.6 (20 > 49) - Wanting to get rid of the administrative burden

One is returning to less boring methods.

86667920.2.3.4.6 (20 > 28) - Being disoriented

One complicates their situation when one doesn't look where the wind comes from.

66667920.1.2.3.4.6 (20 > 43) - Wanting to be a role model

One builds one's life by being careful to be an example to everyone.

88689920.3.5.6 (20 > 15) - Protesting in vain

One can't understand the real reason for one's failure.

68689920.1.3.5.6 (20 > 36) - Meeting the schedule

Following these events, one can stay at home for a while to take a well-deserved rest.

86689920.2.3.5.6 (20 > 46) - View

One bounces back so as not to cast doubt in the minds of others.

66689920.1.2.3.5.6 (20 > 11) - Selling dreams

One excels at presenting one's ideas in unexpected ways.

88669920.3.4.5.6 (20 > 62) - Accepting the judgment

One gathers their ideas to have the strength to accept their destiny.

68669920.1.3.4.5.6 (20 > 55) - View

One shamelessly incriminates those who have agreed to support their children.

86669920.2.3.4.5.6 (20 > 32) - Fomenting a riot

One harangues others to make them angry.

66669920.1.2.3.4.5.6 (20 > 34) - View

One preaches for a parish that no longer has moral authority.