I Ching Hexagram 30 Line 5

30.5 Losing a friend

I Ching Hexagram 30 - Line 5

One realizes that one has to leave a close one.

Derivated hexagram

13 - Company

Making oneself available. Disregarding one's opinions. A general agreement is unlikely.

13 - Company
5 - Acting together, then feeling lost. Both are worried and saddened but the feelings are shared. After great difficulties, the meeting will be joyful.

Nuclear comment

28 - Loneiness

One goes on their own if necessary. Stick to the essential.

28 - Loneiness
6 - One wants to continue alone because of the weakness of one's entourage.

Nuclear transformation

44 - Invitation

One must not abuse hospitality.

44 - Invitation

Multiple transformations

78776730.5 (30 > 13) - Losing a friend

One realizes that one has to leave a close one.

98776730.1.5 (30 > 33) - Lucidity

One leaves with very specific ideas about what to give up.

76776730.2.5 (30 > 1) - Taking over

One will be able to do what the others have planned.

96776730.1.2.5 (30 > 44) - Pretending the moon and stars

One tries to seduce the undecided by making them promises that one cannot keep.

78976730.3.5 (30 > 25) - Resisting pressure

One refuses to act under threat.

98976730.1.3.5 (30 > 12) - Surrendering to complexity

One doesn't understand what to do, so one refrains from acting.

76976730.2.3.5 (30 > 10) - Scouting out

One places those who are able to recognize others first.

96976730.1.2.3.5 (30 > 6) - Having a problem with ethics

One receives proposals which go against one's principles.

78796730.4.5 (30 > 37) - Grasping at straws

One shoots at anything that moves when one is trigger-happy.

98796730.1.4.5 (30 > 53) - Dashing hopes

One begins to get used to the idea that the others do not have the required qualities.

76796730.2.4.5 (30 > 9) - Melting in the crowd

One pretends to be like those who have not developed a plan.

96796730.1.2.4.5 (30 > 57) - Losing one's ties

One affirms one's determination to be part of the expedition.

78996730.3.4.5 (30 > 42) - Signing out

One informs one's friends before taking a break from life.

98996730.1.3.4.5 (30 > 20) - Cancelling a trip

One changes one's mind before being confronted by one's opponents.

76996730.2.3.4.5 (30 > 61) - Restoring one's image

One is received with dignity despite the deviations one may have made.

96996730.1.2.3.4.5 (30 > 59) - Not being up to the task

One tries to make others believe that one is qualified.

78776930.5.6 (30 > 49) - Not being pessimistic

One does not believe that the end is near.

98776930.1.5.6 (30 > 31) - Suspending the encounter

There is agreement on a lull to evacuate the wounded.

76776930.2.5.6 (30 > 43) - Dampening ambitions

One weakens the ardor of one's companions by not helping them to make their dreams come true.

96776930.1.2.5.6 (30 > 28) - Respecting the presumption of innocence

One moderates one's judgment because others have not had the opportunity to defend themselves.

78976930.3.5.6 (30 > 17) - Installing an emergency exit

One provides a means of access for emergency response.

98976930.1.3.5.6 (30 > 45) - Strengthening relationships

One sees again the people that one has only recently met to develop special friendship with them.

76976930.2.3.5.6 (30 > 58) - Getting caught up in the game

One cross-checks the information available to obtain a precise view of the situation.

96976930.1.2.3.5.6 (30 > 47) - Refusing to be compromised

One believes that the chances are high that others will not come.

78796930.4.5.6 (30 > 63) - Being pressured

One is terrified at the thought that others will attack what one loves most.

98796930.1.4.5.6 (30 > 39) - Addressing the lack of culture

One strives to tell others what they need to learn but forgets to let them know the real reasons for their education.

76796930.2.4.5.6 (30 > 5) - Understanding afterwards

One recognizes that others have shown common sense.

96796930.1.2.4.5.6 (30 > 48) - Keeping pace

One claps feet or hands in rhythm to accompany the musicians.

78996930.3.4.5.6 (30 > 3) - Avoiding confrontation

Others submit their ideas to to those with whom one competes.

98996930.1.3.4.5.6 (30 > 8) - Placing safeguards

One draws up a plan to prevent others from making mistakes.

76996930.2.3.4.5.6 (30 > 60) - Listening attentively

One does one's best to understand what the others are saying.

96996930.1.2.3.4.5.6 (30 > 29) - Enforcing quotas

One refuses to see more guests coming than one had planned.