Alternatives

Published: Thursday, 5 December 2019

Yes or no questions are a recurring subject of debate. Some say you shouldn't ask and others say you can do it. In practice, it is quite possible to ask such questions, but it is then necessary to be able to interpret the answer. Here are two examples of alternative choices, the second example being clearly a yes or no question.

First example: buying a console

When I was thinking of offering a game console to a loved one, I asked if it would be better to use a portable model or a home model.

The situation: 10

10
10 - Continuity

One is committed with confidence, in the long term and with a simple goal, without looking for outside help.

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Without seeking help from outside, it would therefore be the home model.  We also see that the lower trigram represents joy, so joy is inside. I ask a confirmation question to validate my interpretation.

Confirmation question: home model?

The situation: 33

33
33 - Moving away

Before leaving, one must hand over the baton.

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We're moving away, but what is moving away? It is time to ask a follow-up question:

What is moving away?

The situation: 51.3 (51 > 55)

51.3 (51 > 55)
51.3 (51 > 55) - Receiving a shock

One sees the breakup so one leaves.

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The prospect of seeing the device broken.

Second example: switching to fiber.

I asked if I should switch my internet connection to fiber, recently installed in my neighbourhood.

The situation: 1.2.3.6 (1 > 17)

1.2.3.6 (1 > 17)
1.2.3.6 (1 > 17) - Evolution

One is satisfied with what they have without concern for the others.

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Confirmation question: so I stay with my current connection.

The situation: 23

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23 - Erosion

A decline that can be contained by drawing on one's reserves.

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Follow-up question: what is declining?

The situation: 22.3 (22 > 27)

22.3 (22 > 27)
22.3 (22 > 27) - Making the pleasure last

One does not want to finish too fast.

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The confirmation question helps to avoid misinterpretation. It also allows you to explore the subject a little further. This is a technique I used many times when I consulted to obtain Taoscopy comments. In the second case, it is a humorous spade, but the answer is unambiguous.

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