One could have understood if one had taken the time to listen to what others had to say.
TranslateBing DeepL Google Linguee Yandex
The case must be clearly stated, shouting is dangerous. Explain the situation to your entourage. Avoid any brutality, do not turn away.
In the making
One would like to meet but must respect the choice of others.
Proof (Pivot's method)
It is imprudent to avoid questions when one doesn't want to be embarrassed.
One uses soft soap to flatter the ego of one's superiors.