One does not send announcements to their relatives when one wants to surprise them.
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One needs to abandon their affairs and make oneself available to patiently soften one's most embarrassing flaws, so that one can inspire confidence and be engaged by those who can help them.
In the making
One would like to meet but must respect the choice of others.
Validation (Pivot's method)
The others do not commit because one has not decided them.
One is working on results that others did not want to accept.