One replaces one's brutal sentences with more accommodating words.
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One needs to abandon their affairs and make oneself available to patiently soften one's most embarrassing flaws, so that one can inspire confidence and be engaged by those who can help them.
In the making
The concern shall be clearly described, shouting results in danger. Explain the situation to one's entourage. Avoid any brutality and do not divert.
Proof (Pivot's method)
One lets others know that one will no longer support them.
One does like everybody else to obtain evidence.