One ruins the atmosphere by showing signs of failure to others.
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One must revisit a misunderstanding if one wants to dispel it. If needed, one can seek advice. One may abandon the small differences.
In the making
One returns to see the results of their action.
Proof (Pivot's method)
One wanted to keep the other one away, and then holds back because the latter comes to ask friendly questions.
Others will appreciate that one exercises discretion.