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Please hel interpret hex 61.5 to 41




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  • Please hel interpret hex 61.5 to 41

    Good day/evening dear people

    I would ask for your help in interpreting the hexagrams I received by asking the I ching question about a rather emotionally intense relationship that I have been involved in for a year. The question was, “What is the future of this relationship”? And the answer I got was 61.5-> 41.

    As for this relationship, the other side (he) occasionally confuses me. At times he indulge him self and it is wonderful and I feel connected like never before with anyone, and then there are periods in which he completely distances itself and we don’t communicate for weeks. We do not discuss this period as he begins to avoid the subject and to build a wall around him.
    Now we are again in that (for me) confusing phase of a relationship that is exhausting me more than ever before because I am in a big life change right now. And because of that, I asked a question about the future of the relationship and meaning of it.

    If needed more information please be free to ask.

    Thanks in advance to anyone who helps me interpret the results
    Love and peace

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    Hello, this line is about seeking refuge. For example: "Can you help me? Sorry but I have work to do." There someone seeks refuge in work to avoid helping.

    When others are waiting for help, and one hesitates, one hides behind one's group.

    How to interpret it? It is a matter of perspective. Either the two of you will seek refuge in your relationship or one of you will seek refuge into something else so as to avoid helping the other. From what you have said it seems that he is seeking refuge in something else, maybe he wants to play video games or something? He may feel overwhelmed maybe? However the solution to that is shown by the Fan Yao 41.5:

    One wants to encourage the weakest to come back to fix their mistakes.

    There is a ring of nice girl/bad boy to it, it shows how difficult people are led back to the right path. At any rate you should not present yourself as needy (as we have seen that it would lead him to go astray) but be assertive and display an image of self-reliance.