One refutes an hypothesis which is contrary to one's values.
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One needs to abandon their affairs and make oneself available to patiently soften one's most embarrassing flaws, so that one can inspire confidence and be engaged by those who can help them.
In the making
Show patience, one is asked to make progress.
Proof (Pivot's method)
One manages to convince others.
One hurries to be of service to others so that they do not have to endure more difficulties.