One started by doing their best, but one relaxed.
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One needs to abandon their affairs and make oneself available to patiently soften one's most embarrassing flaws, so that one can inspire confidence and be engaged by those who can help them.
In the making
One is committed with confidence, in the long term and with a simple goal, without looking for outside help.
Validation (Pivot's method)
One manages to convince others.
The differences are worsened when the same solutions are not chosen.